Wherever You Go

So my father used to say this idea about dealing with life’s challenges:

“Wherever you go, that’s where you are!”

If you think about it for a moment, it really is very profound. 

Some people think that they can run away from their problems.

Move here, there, everywhere. 

Change schools, jobs, spouses, whatever. 

But you can’t run away from yourself. 

Wherever you run, you’re still you!

So you need to fix yourself, your problems, your life. 

Yes, sometimes your in a place is bad, a bad fit, the people are bad, the chemistry is bad, the circumstances are bad. 

And then change can certainly be a welcome and good thing.

But when you change the external, the internal has to keep developing and changing as well, so that we learn and grow to be better people.  

Change your place is not a substitute for changing and growing yourself–that is the only constant with change. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal) 

It’s Not (Always) Easy

Sometimes, we see people–especially on social media these days–and they look “all that!”–so happy, so loved, so rich, so with everything–so it seems (superficially). 

But there is definitely another reality out there, and that is that everyone has problems:

– Family

– Health

– Finances

– Work

– School

– Conflict

– Spiritual

Like Helen Keller said: 

“I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.”

I remember as a child, if I felt sad about something, my dad at times would remind me about the children in the hospital, and to think about how we can help others less fortunate–and he was right!

What I see in life is a lot of people trying, but also so many challenges, failures, and suffering along the way…unfortunately, it’s part of the learning and growth equation, and in why we’re here. 

In college, I always remember one (English) professor who taught me from Henry David Thoreau:

“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.”

Sometimes, in our solitude or when we speak quietly from our heart with our closest loved ones, we feel and express some of those deep feelings of hurt, pain, and suffering from our lives.  

Those experiences, memories, and feelings are not all that there is of us, but it is certainly a part of all of us–although maybe only the brave will admit theirs.

It’s not shameful to feel, to cry, and to be human. 

It’s certainly not what Facebook and Twitter are all about. 

But it’s a genuine and critical part of us which recognizes as my dad also taught me that–life is not easy–and that we have to fight every day to do our best and to help others to do theirs. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

My Alter Fighting Ego

“His who life was a million to one shot.”

He fought, he survived, and he triumphed.  

Go Rocky, Rambo, Sylvester Stallone. 

Human rights, social justice, good over evil. 

And never again! 🙂

(Source Photo: here via Facebook)

A Deal Of Dread

I would imagine that very soon there will be ATA-boys, pats on the back and high-fives, photo ops, more gushing smiles, and of course the coveted Noble Peace Prize. 

But as we move ever closer to a deal with Iran on Nuclear Weapons Of Mass Destruction all I feel is complete dread.

I wish I could be happy–really I do–because we had a strong and verifiable deal that protected us all, but instead…

I am afraid for the State of Israel–holy to Jews, Christians, and Muslims around the world–as a nuclear capable Iran and their terrorist proxies renew vows to annihilate Israel–only 70 years after the Holocaust that erased 6 million Jewish lives, their souls rising in the billowing smoke of the furnaces of the Nazi crematoria. 

Further, I am afraid for the dimming prospects of true world peace based on the tacit acceptance of an eventual nuclear-armed Iranian regime, still the leading state sponsor of world-wide terrorism. 

Every day, we are bombarded by a cacophony of what seems an unending litany of concessions to Iran:

1) Today, the latest is that Iran wants a complete lifting of the U.N. arms embargo including ballistic missiles. 

2) Yesterday, it was that Iran wants an immediate doubling of oil exports.

3) Last week, it was that rather than gradual sanctions relief for compliance, instead now Iran would get a $150 billion signing bonus  – that is 25 times the annual budget of Iran’s elite Revolutionary Guard and could be used to finance and carry out yet more global terrorism. 

4) And that for vital inspections for nuke compliance, “anytime, anywhere, unimpeded” of suspicious military sites would now only be a highly watered down “managed access” of inspections.

5) Three weeks ago, the U.S. said that Iran no longer needs to account for the past nuclear weapons research that world representatives from the International Atomic Energy Agency (IAEA), had been trying to pry out of them for than a decade. 

6) In March, as part of the framework deal, we learned that Iran’s freeze on sensitive nuclear activities would only be 10 years, and even that Iran was calling “unaceptable.”

7) Moreover in March, we learned that despite any agreement, Iran was continuing to pursue banned items for nukes and the missiles to deliver them. 

In April, we were reminded of the dangers of failed nuclear agreements when China warned about North Korea’s ever expanding nuke arsenal, which critics have pointed out mimics that of the deal with Iran. 

Aside from the dangerous weaknesses in the emerging deal, Iran’s hatred for the United States is unmitigated as a general in Iran said just last week that the U.S. remains “our worst, most vicious enemy.”

Moreover, as Iran’s Parlimant bans access to its military sites, they continue unabated their generational old chant of “death to America.”

In these fateful times, when our decisions now will affect the lives of untold millions in the future, let us pray for G-d’s mercy.

May the L-rd above bestow the strength of good character, wisdom of our ancestors, and the fortitude of our great heros to ensure a good deal–or no deal at all–with our avowed and undetered enemy–and may he bring a true peace to us all.

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

It’s Not Working

So it’s human nature to want to leave the world a better place than before we got here.

But you wouldn’t know it by how things are looking the last number of years.

Here’s just the latest from reports this week:

1) The Global Peace Index: “World is less peaceful today than in 2008…Last year alone it is estimated that 20,000 people were killed in terrorist attacks up from an average of 2,000 a year only 10 years ago.”

2) A Record Year In Misery: “The world has never seen a refuge crisis this bad…last year saw the total number of forcibly displaced persons rise to 59.5 million, an all time high.” This is due to world conflict, general violence, human rights violations, and persecution.”

3) Climate Apocalypse: “A child born today may live to see humanity’s end…[as a result of] overcrowding, denuded resources, and climate change…dangerous climate change is already here. The question is can we avoid catastrophic climate change.”

4) Americans Have Lost Confidence In Everything: “It not just Congress [and the President] and the economy that have Americans concerned these days…All in all, it’s a picture of a nation discouraged about its present and worried about its future, and highly doubtful that its institutions can pull America out of its trough.

Maybe the worst thing is that many people are deluding themselves that everything is hunky dory. 

But isn’t it time for some real wins again? 

To do that we need genuine good old fashioned elbow grease–that means we start with a strategy that actually tackles the issues rather than kicking the can down the road. We need honesty, not political upmanships and swell soundbite cliches. 

What good is appeasement to the masses now, if it means their utter despair or demise later–for example, why should we be Greece on the brink of national bankruptcy, if instead we can be Norway with the largest sovereign wealth fund in the world? 

Then comes the hard work, fortitude, and commitment to turn the tide on the bad news and losses. This mean personal and national sacrifice now in order to have better times for our children and grandchildren. 

G-d is watching us, our children are questioning us, the needy are looking to us. 

We are working hard, but it’s hardly working! 

Maybe we need to make this real simple: “Little Johnny, now take your medicine, and stop fighting Mommy, p-lease!”  😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)