Got Mic

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My daughter went to a cool work seminar yesterday on emotional intelligence and she told me five important takeaways for creating EI health:


1. Self-awareness


2. Self-regulation


3. Self-motivation


4. Effective relationships


5. Empathy


Certainly, exerting self-control and working effectively with others is sort of obvious.


But it is not necessarily easy for everyone to do. 


Reflecting on this, some people seem to need no microphone or megaphone. 


They can’t get off the elevating soapbox and behave instead is as if they are the whole show onto themselves. 


Enjoying to talk alone or above everyone else, maneuvering with drama and theatrics, and being cemented squarely in that center stage.


Perhaps highly intelligent about the subject matter, but often quite low on emotional intelligence. 


Seeing neither the objective nor the team, unable to recognize and respect others or to listen to alternate points of view, it may go on for quite some time before they come up for air. 


Overly extroverted, oblivious, uncaring, or perhaps needy or narcissistic.


Seeming to say, “I was created and stand in the center of the universe and all revolves around me!”


Chasing honor and dismissive as to their way or the highway–threats lurk, right or wrong. 


This is definitely a job for self-improvement and to personal advancement. 


Can EI be learned? 


Perhaps if the person can stop for a sec and just listen and be humbly part of the human race. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

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Blessing Each Other

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Today in synagogue, we did not have any Kohanim (members of the priestly class) to do the ritual blessing of the people. 


So Rabbi Haim Ovadia did something really creative and beautiful.


He had each of us turn to our neighbor and put our hands over each other’s heads and recite the blessing from the Torah:


“May G-d bless and guide you.

May G-d shine his countenance on you and be gracious to you.

May G-d turn his countenance toward you and grant you peace.”


The gesture of brotherhood and caring for each other was very, very nice, and I got to meet someone new in synagogue today.


People need people…and we need G-d. 


Somehow it makes everything better. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

G-d, Nature and Technology B


Hello out there in TV land!



@TotalCIO appreciating nature and G-d’s gracious gifts.



Technology and innovation is a derivative of all the kindness and beauty G-d has bestowed on us!



Video clip, short and sweet. 😉



(Source Video: Dannielle Blumenthal)