So I heard about someone misinterpreting something I did for the worse.
Occasionally, when someone tries to shake my hand, instead of shaking with my right hand, I will take their hand in my left.
I’ll do this for various reasons such as arthritic pain or from dirt (like ink or cleaning ) from some prior work I was doing.
But always when I extend my hand it is with warmth and friendship.
However, I learned that one person took this handshake as a serious personal affront.
They thought that I was “disrespecting” them intentionally.
So I learned that even the most everyday, mundane gestures like a handshake, but done differently, can be taken out of context and misinterpreted.
Why do we judge others for the bad?
Maybe because we don’t trust, don’t want to ask, don’t want to know, or have had bad experiences in life that jade us.
But sometimes a handshake is just a handshake whether with the right or left hand.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)