When We Were Kids

My big sister and I.

Many moons ago.

Television with rabbit ears in the background.

That’s when we all we had were 4 stations ABC, CBS, NBC, and PBS.

We called it the “Zombie Box” because you could just stay glued to it for hours and tune the world out mesmerized at the moving pictures.

Everyone knew what was on every station, every hour of the day and still there was a TV Guide published weekly to check.

When the TV went fuzzy, you had to give it a clop on the side and magically the picture cleared up for a few minutes if you were lucky.

Those were the days. 😉

(Thank you to my sister, Roz, for refreshing a copy of this to me)

Rubik’s Cube On Speed

A regular, traditional Rubik’s Cube is 3×3 by 6 sides. 

That’s a total of 54 moving squares to order by color on each side. 

This Rubik’s Cube On Speed is 7×7 by 6 sides.

 So this cube has 294 squares to figure out. 

(I did find another cube on eBay that was even larger, 15×15, called “Professional Level” selling for $384.40)

I’m sure there are some real whiz kids out there that can do these puzzles. 

And probably in under 3 minutes…

For me, I admire the dexterity and spatial skills. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

@IsraelFest By Andy Blumenthal

 

Singing competition @IsraelFest. 

A little of Yom Ha’atzmuet and Eurovision combined. 

(Source Videos:  Andy Blumenthal)

Take Off Those Shoes

So this was pretty funny. 

We have a sign in our house that people should take off their shoes when they come in. 

Heck, it’s part of being a neat freak and somewhat germaphobic.

But of course, the kids invariably don’t follow the house rules and we get the shoe dirt all over. 

And guess who has to always clean it up?  

Well the other day, my daughter was looking to purchase a condo, and when she found a place she liked, she was walking around the apartment and saying:

When I have my own place, everyone is going to take off their shoes.

Hmm, when the place is yours and you have to clean up the messes, all of a sudden the house rules are in effect and big time.  😉

(Source Photo: Dannielle Blumenthal)

No One Cares How You Feel

So parenting is not always an easy job. 

But it is one full of love and helping your kids. 

Sometimes, I remember listening to my kids say that they feel this or that and seeing that it was holding them back from accomplishing their goals.  

Often, I would tell them that the only people that really care about how they feel is your mother and father–but generally-speaking, it a tough world out there, and: 

“No one [else] cares about how you feel.”

I tried to focus them–not on being cold and unfeeling–but rather on being strong inside and focusing on the tasks that need to get done. 

Sure, feelings are important, but if you are getting held back from doing what you need to do–then there are times when you need to put the feelings in abeyance and go forward. 

Overall, there is plenty of time to feel what you feel, but don’t let anger, fear, or anxiety get in the way of you accomplishing your dreams. 

In a book that I am reading by Amos Oz, “A Tale of Love and Darkness,” he writes: 

‘I want’ and ‘I don’t want’ aren’t reasons, they can only be defined as self-indulgence.

Yes, it’s a little tough love, but also it is out of true love to help the kids to be willing and determined to try their best and not get held back by anything in the pursuit of the destiny they choose to follow. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

And On That Day…

Please see my new article in The Times of Israel, All Will Know G-d. 

In the true story that I recount, a little Ethiopian girl tells me:

There is no reason to fight because we all believe in G-d and that He created us.

Similar to what Zechariah prophesized (14:9)

The LORD will be king over the whole earth. On that day there will be one LORD, and his name the only name.

 

I hope you enjoy this piece on faith, unity, and hope for the future. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

To Little Jonah

So swimming in the pool, I meet little 7-year old Jonah. 

He sort of made himself known to me when he decided he wanted to race me on the swim board.

I was going just a little faster–and I reminded him that I had a key competitive advantage, fins. 

He said, “Darn I should have brought mine!’

He asked how old I was, and I said a little older than you. 

Not satisfied, he pressed the question, saying “I can tell you are an adult.”

So I had to cave and admit that, and pointing to my heart, added that “I am young at heart.”

Jonah’s in 1st grade, and wanted to know what grade I was in. 

His guess was 4th grade, and I said “That’s about right.”

Jonah is from New Orleans visiting his grandmother for Passover. 

She was watching him in the pool and smiling with grandmotherly nachos, ear-to-ear.

I told Jonah to make sure to treat his grandmother nicely. 

But Jonah at this point had jumped into my swim lane and was in mock superhero fighting mode, and said “I want to punch you.”

I thought to myself, hmm it’s not only my wife that feels that way (LOL).

Anyway, it was clear that I had made a new friend with Jonah, who was off bobbing up and down in the water well over his head. 

Bye Jonah–have a good time visiting for Passover. 

(Source Photo: Dannielle Blumenthal)

Teen Lounge Chair

I took this photo of a cool teen lounge chair. 

Stretch out and relax or study on this oversized lounger. 

The fabric is emblazoned with:

– PEACE

– FREEDOM

– LOVE 

– FLIRT

– BEAST

– ROCK

– POWER

– EGO

– SHINE

I think this would look pretty good in a kids room.

How about you?

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

“The Chief”

So swimming in Florida last week, I couldn’t help but think about my years back at Eagle Day Camp.

First as a camper, then counselor, and finally lifeguard at this fairly large Orthodox Jewish children’s camp in Rockland County, New York. 

As a camper, I hated swimming and the smelly, musty, and overcrowded locker rooms.

When I was only about 6-7 already, I told my parents, I would only go to camp, if I didn’t have to swim–after a lot of fuss, I got them to agree.

But years later, I learned to love swimming–the gorgeous outdoors, calming water, and health and therapeutic effects. 

I worked with “The Chief” (Norman Garfield, pictured at left) for many years…he was a radio talk show host and actor, and in camp played the starring role of Chief Taka Zeis, last of the Gutta Neshamah (Yiddish for Good Soul) Tribe.

He entertained the children like no one else could–with made up chants of “Tzitsamagoo!”, his silly outfits (notice the unmatched socks in addition to the feather hat), and to songs like “Let the Sun Shine In,” he was always someone that could be counted on to safely watch the children swim, teach them, and make them laugh. 

One Summer, The Chief, encouraged us (the other lifeguards) to sign up for the Red Cross Swim and Stay Fit program, and I think I swam 20-30 miles in between lifeguarding over about 6-8 weeks. 

Those were some fun times with The Chief and some of my old friends like Mark Stadtmauer, Elissa Rothman (Brodsky), and many others. 

Today, just a few months post hip surgery, I once again appreciate the swimming, and try to go as often as possible for health reasons. 

I am thankful for those years and for the ones granted now. 😉

(Source Photo: Who The Heck Remembers)

We Need More Rabbit

This was a funny scene down at Foggy Bottom today.

The Nesquik rabbit was giving out chocolate milk bottle samples.

On a warm August day today, this was nice. 

But also, it was refreshing to see a little light-heartedness downtown. 

We all–adults and kids–need more of this–to enjoy life.

It was interesting how we are so going in the opposite direction these days.

Not only with all the bad news around the world…

But even with how hard we have to work just to keep up (24/7) and with a world where our kids are having to work and miss out on what is supposed to be some more or less carefree exploratory years to find themselves. 

Now it’s SAT prep, AP classes, internships, volunteer opportunities, and extracurricular activities–all the time. 

In this regard, in the Wall Street Journal today, there was a review of a book called Excellent Sheep.

The book’s author explains how “For many students, rising to the absolute top means being consumed by the system…[where they] sacrifice health, relationships, exploration, [and] activities…[those things] essential for developing souls and hearts.”

The kids are often working so hard that they are anxious, depressed, and often miserable. 

When getting ahead and becoming wealthy (a priority for 80%!) becomes the prime reason for our young adults’ existence, maybe we have missed the boat in terms of finding true meaning and joy in life. 

Hard work and striving for success is a good thing, but worshipping the proverbial “golden calf” is not productive. 

Like the rabbit, I would give a thumbs up to those for whom a more well-balanced life rules the day–where success, meaning, and joy all play an important part, and we can drink some chocolate milk and not take everything so darn serious. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)