Next @7Eleven

This lady is a scream at 7-Eleven. 


With the looks, personality, and humor, she should definitely have her own tv show.  


Great times in Florida (thank you Hashem). 😉


(Source Video: Andy Blumenthal)

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Quickie But Goodie

Gorgeous

So in the office, one person says to another that they need to have a meeting to catch up on some things. 


The other person is obviously very busy, and so the first person trying to accommodate and be mindful of people’s time says, “We can do a quickie.”


At which point, the kindergarden personalities take over in the office, and the person responds cracking up, “I am begging you never to say that again!”


It funny how despite people growing up on the outside (in years), people are still always sort of just kids on the inside. 


Maybe in a way that is a good thing that part of ourselves retains the carefree innocence and jovialness of our youth.


We may not be sooo gorgeous anymore, but we are still the same person on the inside–just a little more experience behind us. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

People That We Meet Each Day

Faces
This piece of art sort of reminded me of the Sesame Street song “People In Your Neighborhood.”



So, who are the people in your neighborhood?

The people that you meet each day.



We meet and interact with all types of people…funny and nice to mean and scary. 



Sometimes, you can see it on their faces–or especially in their eyes–who they are and what are their intentions. 



Other times, looks can be grossly deceiving, and we really have no clue who or what we are dealing with–psychopath or good samaritan.



Lately, as I meet or pass people, I see them on two distinct levels:



One is the physcial body they are in…their outward manifestation…the shell or outer casing that houses “them.”



Two is the soul or G-dly spirit on the inside…the real them…the part that lived before and will live on even after the outside body is long gone. 



Our bodies are just housings for our souls…some people have physical disabilities, almost like a car that has broken parts over time…but what is inside perceives the greater reality and in a sense is both facilitated through and limited by our bodies–whether whole or broken. 



Sometimes, I feel like I am just looking right through the person and am really seeing their inner essence soul. 



Looks are just outside…inside is the real people we meet each day. 😉



(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Charisma, MORE Than Skin Deep

Art Girl
Charisma is something that can make or break a career or life.



If you have it, people often flock to you–that means connections, networking, relationships, and support. 



If you don’t have it, then kiss your effectiveness and associates goodbye. 



According to Elizabeth Holmes in the Wall Street Journal, charisma is about how you look, talk, prep, smile, and get feedback. 



At work, for example, Holmes focuses quite a bit on superficial outwardly things like “Look polished, wrinkle-free,” “Make eye contact,” “Master grace under fire,” and more.



And while these are important, they are really also the more superficial of what you can do in term of primarily how you look and comport yourself on the surface. 



Holmes does point more substantive things you can do, like ask for honest feedback, so presumably you can improve yourself. 



But improvements in the skin deep is nice, but not the essence of charisma.



Yes, no one appreciates someone who comes into the room disheveled, smelly, and like a proverbial turd. 



But more important than how one looks, talks and carry’s themselves outwardly is how they actually behave. 



Looks are superficial, and word are cheap, but what a person actually does shows what they are really all about as a human being. 



Yes, do you need to build confidence by being put together, of course you do.



But to really build respect, trust, influence, inspire, and lead, you need to be a mensch–a decent human being, grounded in virtuous beliefs, who shows they will do the right thing and act at all times with a core integrity.



Charisma means we genuinely care and help others–not that we focus on promoting ourselves by walking around as the high and mighty



In the end, your charisma, charm, gravitas, presence and effectiveness as a leader is much more about what you do then what you simply look like or spout out. 



Be genuinely kind, caring, and giving, and that is a presence that can be sincerely felt and not just ogled over. 😉



(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)