Wow, I love these glasses–red, big, and with wings!
I asked the store owner about them, and he said he gets these mostly for (window) display purposes.
But one lady actually bought a pair similar to this for a big event she was going to.
I think these would certainly make a statement (however crazy) when someone walks into the room wearing these.
Maybe that’s the point for many people–to stand out!
People want to be noticed, special, and be thought of as something or as somebodies.
Being 1 of 7 billion people is not very satisfying–so how do we differentiate ourselves?
- The fancy house and cars we have
- The clothing and accessories we wear and carry
- The trophy wife or husband that hangs on us
- Our own physical good looks, fitness, and skills
- The prestigious university we went to and the degrees we possess
- Climbing the career ladder and our titles and offices
- Our pedigree from kings, clergy, hollywood, rich, or otherwise famous or successful people
- The children (and grandchildren) that we rear to be smart, successful, well-integrated, etc.?
- How religious we are, how much charity we give, the kindness we show others?
This is something that we all struggle with as human beings–what is a life of purpose, meaning and how do we know that we’ve achieved it?
I think the problem for many is that we measure ourselves by what we have and not who we are. Perhaps, this is a clear mistaken case of quantity over quality.
Down in Florida, I see so many “haves” and “have nots”–but it’s not enough for the haves to have, but if they aren’t showing it off, getting stares, having people talk about them, then they seem to feel uncomfortably ordinary.
What is this disease of the ordinary that people must ever run to escape from–and even with the reddest, wildest, wing glasses or whatever–will they ever feel truly happy and satisfied inside?
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)