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This sign was just too great. 

Advertisement with the little slips at the bottom to tear off. 

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Please take an information strip below

And what do the strips say:

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I wonder why no one took any of the strips? LOL

Like every meaningful issue, we have people on both sides of the aisle fighting it out what is the right thing to do. 

And when it comes to life and liberty, passions certainly run high. 😉

(Credit Photo to my son-in-law Itzchak for sharing this with me from his friend in California)

@Bagels and Business with CEO Hair Cuttery, Dennis Ratner

Hair Cuttery has 1,000 company-owned Salons in 18 states in the USA.  

Dennis Ratner, the founder and CEO is a huge success story.

– Puts people first. 

– Gives back to the community. 

– Believes in vision, planning, and execution. 

– Dennis said: “Effort = Reward” and to be “Relentless” in pursuing your passion.

– Great roles model. 

(Source Video: Andy Blumenthal)

Sing Louder

So I heard this interesting saying the other day:

If you can’t sing better, sing louder!

It’s funny that people actually do that type of thing all the time. 

My colleagues boss told someone I know: 

You’re a fake it till you make it type of person

This can apply to all sort of activities and not just singing.

— Public speaking, your job, sports, cooking, etc. 

Often, people have to do things that they really just don’t do very well.

– Maybe it’s not their forte. 

– Maybe they’re just not into it. 

But rather than call it for what it is.

Instead, they pretend and make a show out of it. 

They exaggerate what they think they are supposed to do. 

Or they try to compensate with something tangential. 

Hey, maybe no will notice.

But people eventually catch-on and do know when you’re lip-singing and faking your way through or just screaming out the lyrics to mask how horrible you singing is. 

Better to be honest and admit what you can and can’t do.

Take some classes or get some training.

Practice, practice, practice. 

Or even consider doing something else that you do enjoy and are good it. 

Either way, you don’t want to be the one singing loudly their whole life.  😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal. Note: this blog is not connected to this or any particular musician)

How Does It Feel At The Top

A colleague told me something interesting about what it feels like at the top.

He said:

The 360 degree view is good, but it get’s windy at times!

I thought this was pretty smart, and one reason that many people opt out of moving into senior and executive positions in their organizations. 

Yes, it’s great to be able to lead and have more visibility, influence, and impact. 

But at the same time, this does not come for free or without risks. 

At the top of the pyramid or corporate offices or whatever, there is opportunity. 

Yet, your dealing with other top honchos with strong personalities, egos, and often harsh ways of dealing with others and conflict can be perilous for many. 

My father used to tell me his philosophy:

Better a little less, but you know what you have. 

There is definitely wisdom in those words. 

Maybe as with most things in life, there is a time and place for everything. 

It is great to have the opportunity to lead.

It’s also not bad to have a time to follow and contribute in that way. 

What’s important is that whatever role your in at the time, that you do it with integrity and passion to do good. 

So how does it feel at the top–sure, it’s a nice view, but it can get very windy too. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

When Do You Become Old?

Is being old an age, a feeling, or both?

Some people seem to get old before their time.

They go about echting and kretzching–at 40 and 50, they are saying this hurts and I feel crummy about that!  Nu, I’m not 18 anymore!

Other people never, literally almost never seem to get old.

One lady I know is going to be 94 this month and she is going strong mentally, emotionally, and physically.  It almost seems impossible.  

This guy in the photo has a funny shirt on that says:

“I thought growing old would take longer.”

Yeah, it does sort of creep up on you, but really, really fast.  Like where the heck did that come from!

I know inside for me, I always still feel like a kid. 

I have the same funny side, playful side, and curious side; the desire to be productive and accomplish something meaningful with my life and time, and to love and be loved. 

Yeah, things hurt a little more than they did years ago–can’t believe the things I used to be able to do–Yes, at one time, I use to break cinder blocks with my bare hands, true!

But now, I can do other things like swim and hike and I love to write things that I am passionate about or to be a little creative too!

Maybe we do not get old…maybe we are just like caterpillars that morph into something else like butterflies during this life and into the life beyond. 

Age is experience, learning, growth–lots of mistakes–and then recovering and trying again and harder.  

Life is wonderment and excitement and appreciation for every amazing beautiful thing. 

No, life does not get old. 

Suffering and loss gets old quick and wish it never was. 

But we are physical bodies with eternal souls, so we go on and on into the wild blue yonder. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Persuasion x 3

I liked this categorization of three types of tools of persuasion developed by Aristotle: 

– Ethos: Appeals to a sense of ethics, morals, and character. 

– Logos: Appeals to a sense of logic, reason, and rationality.

– Pathos: Appeals to a sense of emotion, empathy, and passion. 

I don’t know about most people, but I don’t get convinced easily. 

You need to show me, prove it to me, or convince me it’s right. 

Some others, and I don’t know why–it’s like you can sell them the Brooklyn Bridge, as they say.  

I think that’s dangerous!

Without critical thinking and evaluation, people can get led astray to do the wrong things…a perfect example is Nazi Germany under Adolf Hitler (may his memory be forever cursed).  

Hitler appealed to the Germans people at the time:

– Emotionally to bring them back from the loss, destruction, and destitution that World War I inflicted and of course, to scapegoat the Jews, Gypsies, and political opponents and send them to the death camps. 

– Logically, that they were a strong and powerful people, the “Aryan nation,” and they therefore, deserved to conquer and rule Europe and the World.

– Ethically–let’s just say, this one didn’t really apply to Hitler, probably the most evil and destructive man this world has ever known, except that even Hitler tried to fool his people falsely proclaiming, “G-d is with us!”

It’s a war of good over evil out there, and we need to make our arguments to influence and persuade for the good, but we also have to be careful not to let others, who are not so good, manipulate us for their own selfish and depraved ends. 

Ethos, Logos, and Pathos–potent tools or weapons in the direction of mankind and civilization. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Settle Down or Trade Up

So I always hear this question from people…

 

Should I be happy with what I have or should I seek out something better?

It’s the age old question of whether to settle down or trade up.

When it comes to any decision in life…choosing a school, degree, career, place to live, an investment decision, or even your spouse and life partner–how do you know when you are making the right decision?

Maybe you like or love what’s in front of your eyes, but you still don’t know 100% if there’s something better out there for you.

Every choice means you are settling in some way, because let’s face it, nothing is perfect in life!

When is good, good enough for you?

There are trade-offs with every decision.

And it’s a matter of what YOU can live with!

A guy may say, “I like this girl, but I’m not sure whether she’s the one for me or that I really want to settle down with long-term.”

Someone else says, “I’m studying to be an accountant, but you know I really always liked psychology.”

And yet a third person says, “I like working at company ABC, but maybe I can learn something new or do better financially for myself and family if I go somewhere else.”

So when do you settle down and when do you try to trade-up?

The dilemma is fateful because you don’t want to lose what you have, but you also don’t want to potentially miss out on something even better for you.

Listen, we’re not prophets!

No one knows whether your investment in something is going to pay off in spades or land you flat on your butt. 

All you can do is try to weight the pros and cons of every decision. 

If you treat life like a roulette game in Las  Vegas, the one thing that is pretty sure is that at some point, you will lose it all to the house. 

So choose wisely and make sure you are passionate about your choice and that can live with it over time. 

Know that you made the best decision you could by looking at it from all angles. 

And most important of all, be grateful for everything you have–these are blessings from the Almighty Above and you need to have faith that He/She is guiding and helping you all along the way. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Born Or Forged To Lead

So are we born to lead or are we forged to greatness through adversity and lots of hard work?

Some people definitely seem to have innate leadership characteristics:

– Charisma

– Integrity

– Decisiveness

– Passion

– Determination

– Agility

– Intelligence

– Inspirational

– Confident

– Articulate

Other people maybe weren’t born with it, but they learn to become great leaders through:

– Hard Work

– Willingness to learn

– Continuous improvement 

– Motivation to advance

– Finding a meaningful mission 

– Belief that they can make a difference

– Faith that G-d is guiding them

Like with most things in our life, it’s a combination of nature and nurture. 

Good raw material starts us off on the right track and then forging it with fire and a hammer and polishing it off into a great sword with hardness, strength, flexibility, and balance. 

As Joanna Coles, Chief Content Officer at Hearst Magazine says:

“I’m an overnight sensation 30 years in the making.”

Birth is just the beginning… 😉

(Source Photo: Dannielle Blumenthal)

Wonderful Thank You

This is one of the most beautiful thank you songs that I have ever heard.

This was played for a departing leader with beautiful photos of all the good and caring work that they did over many years.

The passion, commitment, and tenacity were evident through out, and even though I hadn’t known this person for long, it brought tears to my ears.

What certain people can accomplish with their lives–helping others, making a better world. 

What we can accomplish through kindness, caring, selflessness, generosity, and tenderness. 

It’s the definition of inspirational–that we can live a life where the “thank you” is really and totally besides the whole point. 

Live life and live it well! 😉

Content Filtering – Should We Restrain Ourselves?

So the Rabbi today spoke about thinking before you speak, and not letting your emotions overcome your logic. 

He mentioned, for example, how some people have so much rage–road rage, email rage, etc.–and you can’t let your rage dictate your actions. 

People can certainly get under your skin–just look at the candidates for President doing that to each other.

But rather than just react and blurt out stupid or horrible things in a tit-for-tat, we need to stop and think.

The Rabbi recounted the old advice of counting to ten before saying or doing something rash that you will regret. 

The joke was about the one guy bullying another, and the victim counts to ten like he’s supposed to, but then rather than take things down a notch or two, he surprises the bully when he hits ten by punching him right in the nose! (lol)

Another cute idea the Rabbi put out there was for marriage counseling–that husbands and wives should drink this “special water” that they hold in their mouth–this way when they are fighting, they have to pause and can’t say anything provocative and aggressive to each other. 

The speak then turned high-tech to some of the new apps for content filtering that help you not to send emails or texts that you are sorry for afterwards. 

And I leaned over to my neighbor in synagogue and said that is so funny, because I just saw this 16-year Indian old girl on Shark Tank who developed this app called ReThink that does just that. 

When you write something negative like ugly or stupid etc., a pop up box comes up and ask whether you really want to say that–it gives you pause to rethink what you are saying and doing. 

She notes from her studies of adolescents that when given the opportunity from this pause, “93% of the time, [they] decide not to post an offensive message on social media.”

I remember one colleague at work used to recommend, “write what you want [with all your emotions], but then delete it, and write what will be constructive to the situation [with your logic].”

Getting back to the election, a lot of what the candidates are saying now and from decades ago is stupid or shameful–“locker room banter”–maybe we need to have a filter on our mouths even when we think other people aren’t listening. 

Realistically, we can’t and shouldn’t have to go around filtering every word we say and holding back on every deed we do–there is something to be said for simply following your moral compass in the moment and reacting naturally, talking and doing from the heart and based on instinct, inner belief, and passion. 

But if you are getting angry, then it is best to hit the pause button and filter yourself before someone else has to count to ten and pop you one in your big dumb coconut face. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)