So this past Shabbat, there was a wonderful guest speaker at Aish, Rav Gav(riel) Friedman.
He was a very lively speaker and with a lot of worthy teachings for his lucky audience.
One thing he said that really stuck with me is about people that complain.
People have hard lives!
As he said, “I don’t know what each of you has been through.”
But one thing that can help us cope with our challenges is our perspective.
And then he said the following:
We need to be glad that we have something to complain about!
Huh, what does that mean?
Well, think about it…
– If you complain about your spouse, thank G-d that you are married (and have a life partner) to complain about.
– If you complain about your job, thank G-d that you have a job (and income) that you can complain about.
– If you complain about your food, thank G-d that you have food to eat (and sustenance for your body) to complain about.
And so on and so forth.
Whatever we complain about, think about what you actually have (the big picture) and what you are complaining about (usually the little picture).
Really, we have so much to be grateful for that we can easily just forget or take for granted.
So next time your complaining, THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE that you are complaining about–you might stop yourself from complaining. 😉
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)