Grass Not Always Greener

Sometimes the grass isn’t (always) greener.


Instead the grass grows in beautiful multi-colors. 


The grass art in this garden looks a lot better than the grass itself. 


The only real green is money and envy!


When comparing your lot with others, make sure you’re comparing apples to apples and oranges to oranges. 


Even then you’ll never know the person’s real “package” (or basket) in life. 


Be sure that everyone has their share of good and bad, so never be jealous of anyone. 😉


(Credit Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Diamonds and Opals

Ring
I just wanted to share this photo of a beautiful ring I found in Santa Fe. 



I like the big diamond in the middle surrounded/lined on both sides by more diamonds.



What seemed really special was that it was inlaid in a setting of beautiful blue, green, and red opal gemstones. 



I asked the jeweler how much this ring was…



Couldn’t believe the price tag for this was $35,000!



Probably a little steep for most people, and not exactly traditional, but in my mind, it was definitely a stand out. 😉

A One Taxi Town of HELL!

Taxi
So coming back from vacation today was a tear.



We had an early flight–before dawn–and when we woke up, I called the town’s single cab company to confirm our early morning pickup (of which the reservation had been made the prior day by the front desk manager at the hotel). 



When we awoke the morning of the travel, I called the cab company to confirm they were on their way.



A man picks up the cab company’s phone and says curtly:



– “I am the dispatcher and also your driver this morning.”



– “I have another person to drop off near your location and will be 15 minutes late.”



Upon which he just hangs up, and we readjust our schedule slightly.



Then I receive a text message 20 minutes early that says the cab is downstairs. 



We rush downstairs, but there is no cab.



15 minutes later he arrives.



He says in a commanding voice:



– “Don’t you put the luggage in trunk, it can damage my computer [we don’t know what computer he was talking about].”



– “Shortest person sit behind me!”



We look at each other at how strange this cabbie is behaving, but again it’s the only “game in town.”



We get in the back seat, upon which he proceeds on the “dispatch computer” set up in the front seat to ignore us with mild apologetics and  works to handle calls, texts, and other people arrangements, while we are waiting in the back [already late because of his prior excuse] to get to the airport.



After what seemed like forever, he turns to me and says, “How are you going to pay?”



I ask, “Can you take a credit card?”



He says, “Yes, but the card reader may have interference at the airport [from this tiny airport, really?], and the ride will be 50 bucks!”



Realizing he was playing some sort of game with us to rip us off, since this was a meter cab, I try to explain that it seemed he was overcharging us saying “Well, we took a cab with you company from the airport just the other day and only paid around $40 and that was in a snowfall [today were clear skies and roads], so I’ll pay you the same $40.”



He turns angrily to me this time, and says threateningly, “You‘re trying to lowball me!  How about I just drive you around in circles and charge you by the meter even more?”



At this point, we could tell this guy was seriously off his rocker, and I try to deescalate this and ask, “Why are you giving us such a hard time with all of this?”



He seemed to calm down for a second as he was ostensibly trying to figure this out, and said okay, “We’ll do the meter [and you’ll pay]!”  



Now we were running late to the airport, this driver had our luggage hostage in the trunk, and he has threatened us to take us for an unwanted tour of the city instead of to the airport and overcharge us or potentially even make us miss our flight altogether.



I looked at my wife and daughter and they were clearly understanding the danger we were in of losing the flight, luggage, and so on; but as we discussed later, they were afraid of even worse physical danger from this person. 



He starts the car and with the dispatch computer screen still open [he angrily slammed open and closed the laptop multiple times], he drives on the highway while simultaneously, still working on dual duty as dispatch…we were terrified.



About halfway to the airport, he turns to me again, and says “Okay, I’ll turn the meter off [before] 40 bucks and you pay me 40!”



Afterward, my wife told me she thought he was going to pull over before 40 bucks and just drop us off somewhere in the middle of the highway.



I ask, continuing to try and calm this guy, “I don’t understand how can the meter be going higher than when we made the same trip in reverse in a storm just the prior week?”



Note, there wasn’t [barely] another car on the road and unlike in big cities, there was no signage with the driver’s picture, name, identification, etc.



He says, again in a threatening manner, “Oh I can also take the back roads to get you there cheaper, but you wouldn’t want me to do that, would you?”



Then he pauses, thinks again, and repeats, “Just pay me $40 cash {and he reaches to turn off the meter).



Soon after, we reach the airport terminal, and the taxi driver jumps out, dumps our [hostage] luggage on the side and holds out his hand. 



I gladly give him the $40 and thank G-d that we are at the airport and safe.



This was really an eye-opening lesson about what can happen when you are in the car with someone and they are in total control over whether you get where your supposed to go, make it in time, get your things, and get out safely.



In these small towns, it is no help that the cab company is a monopoly and probably the dispatcher/driver is probably also a part owner and maybe even has friends at the local airport, hotel, police, and the courts, etc.



I don’t think for a second that we were his first victims, and hope that people reading this will help make this his last! 



(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Going For A Healing

Oxygen Bar
So my wife tricked me today…



First day in Santa Fe and there was so much to see. 



By afternoon, my wife said she was tired and wanted to stop in an “Oxygen Bar.”



Good Jewish boy from the Bronx, what do I know from Oxygen Bars?



So they had these cool health tonics, soothing music, beautiful artwork, oxygen therapy, and…



In the back, they did healing treatments!



So my wife tells me I should do this.



Ah, why do I want to spend money on healing treatments?



She jumps up, goes over and talks to the owner, and comes back and says “Okay honey, she is going to give you a sampler.”



A what!



I hem and haw, but my wife doesn’t take no for an answer, so I reluctantly go to try it.



Well…



I really enjoyed it.  



From spa-type treatments to spiritual healing.



I had a smorgasbord of some light massage/reflexology, oils, sprays, rocks, branches and leaves, warm wet cloths, figure eights with a dream catcher, angels and animal spirits, and even prayers said. 



The very nice Jewish owner, Kadima Levanah, spoke about releasing your energy, having compassion on yourself, doing your best, starting anew, and having a full healing. 



By the end, I was smiling and feeling a lot more stress free–even though my wife tricked me like usual! 😉



(Source Photo: Rebecca Blumenthal)