Sexuality Sells Sometimes

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So this was the entranceway to a store in Florida. 


As you can see, the center mannequin is set up sitting in not a very modest way for a lady. 


And worse, there is a little boy mannequin situated right next to her. 


It was funny to see people stop to look at this fake sexual scene.


But no amount of sexuality could sell the junk that the store was pushing. 


So strutting your stuff or showing a little skin–or in this case hard plastic–may get the customer’s attention or even in the store.


However, it certainly doesn’t close the deal, although something else here would be better off shut or as my mother-in-law says, “close your yap!” 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Not 4 Valentines Day

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Valentines Day is the holiday of love. 


And this photo is not the message you want to see or expect today–of all days!


Anyway, they were selling this sleep mask at the mall.


One one side, it says “Ready”–yeah, a little forward, but problem welcome by most partners.


On the other side, it reads, “Not 2Nite”–gasps and disappointment for sure. 


What type of Valentines Day are you going to have?


Love is in the air, enjoy!


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Tznius Police

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So there is an important concept in Judaism as well as other religions of modesty for the sexes. 


This means appropriately covering up in dress and acting modestly. 


In Hebrew, we call it Tznius!


As kids, I remember the kids used to sing, “Tznius, don’t show you knee-ius.”


It seems like these days, “everything goes,” where extreme sexuality in public and showing off is the rage. 


But as I remember the older generation saying, “Maybe some things are better left to the imagination.”


That doesn’t mean we need to be a bunch of prudes–inhibit or prohibit people from being who they are. 


Freedom means everyone is allowed and has a fundamental right to self-expression. 


But also, people that want to show more restraint and modesty can do that too. 


Perhaps, sometimes things in our society can get a little too superficial, where like and love is only skin deep. 


We forget the inner person and the soul in lieu of momentary pleasures of the flesh. 


I don’t think we need the tznius police to come out and tell us what to do, but rather that we need to be consider people inside and out for what and who they really are. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Survey The Performance

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So I was in the Apple store recently and made a purchase to upgrade some technology.


Afterwards, I got an email asking:


“How was your experience with Beverly?


When I opened this my wife saw this and was like, “What the heck is that?!”


We should be surveying the work performance and not the experience with the person.


I can’t imagine that super smart Apple didn’t see this sort of double entendre about sweet Beverly.


All Apple needed to do was add in the word(s) at the top, shopping and/or at Apple, as in “How was your shopping experience with Beverly at Apple? (rather than burying it in the subtext later)”


But then their customer satisfaction survey maybe wouldn’t get as much attention.


Sexualizing the customer experience shouldn’t be part of marketing, unless maybe your purposely visiting a shady part of town for unscrupulous reasons. 


Anyway, I did respond that Beverly was a definite 5!


Thank you for the wonderful technology Apple and for the experience with Beverly–it was great! 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Modesty And Privacy Of Body and Information

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So modesty and privacy is very important in terms of propriety and security.


Both are intimately connected. 


Already as children, we learn not to show or talk about our “privates” to others. 


And as adults, we understand that there are certain things about ourselves that we don’t just talk about or divulge to others indiscriminately. 


Not being discrete with these and showing either your private parts or your personal information can get you in a load of trouble by giving others the opportunity to take undue advantage of you. 


Both open you up to be ridiculed or even raped of your person or information identity. 


That which is yours to use with others in propriety is instead disclosed for taking out from your control and for use against you. 


Security demands modesty of body and of information, and if not taken seriously, then no amount of lame covering will keep that which is private from public consumption. 😉

Equality Is Human Rights

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I was most impressed recently with the organization (including the marketing and branding) behind the LGBT movement. 


The new bumper sticker with the yellow equal (=) sign.


The people on the street in yellow “Equality” t-shirts wanting to talk and promote themselves.


The tablet computers they are carrying equipped with slide presentation on equal rights (and their association with the larger issue on their website for human rights).  


The on-the-spot electronic sign up for either monthly donations and/or petition for the Equality Act to amend the Civil Rights Act to include sexual orientation. 


Religious beliefs aside, and as long as you don’t hurt others, people are people and should not be discriminated against. 


All people should be treated fairly and protected from disparate or unfair treatment, bullying or worse. 

Equality really is human rights. 😉


(Source Photos: Andy Blumenthal)

How Men And Women Sit

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This was funny-sad on the train in Washington, D.C. 


This couple–a man and women–are sitting together. 


The man (on the right) is completely sprawling out.


The women (on the left) is squishing almost off the seat.


So what is it with men–a testosterone, macho thing–exerting sexuality, power, and dominance–or it is just carelessness and callousness in how to treat women?


For women–is it reticence and modesty or are they accepting being mistreated or even abused? 


People’s weight aside, it seems that men and women should each be given their own and equal space on the Metro or otherwise in life. 


This presumed gender power struggle is not a good thing–love should be equal in feeling, giving, and in time, and space. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Losing Our Tech-osterone

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So a vendor comes in and does a pitch and demo for a product we were interested in. 


But this technology vendor, a Fortune 100 company, couldn’t figure out how to plug in their laptop for the demonstration. 


The presenter is holding his plug from the computer and comparing it to the ports on the monitor and going, “Is it a male or is it a female?”


It’s almost like he’s going innie or outtie…


And he’s repeating this over and over again as he keeps trying to plug in his cord to the various openings. 


Everyone is sitting sort of uncomfortably at this point, and so I try to break the tension and say, “I didn’t know we were going to be getting an anatomy lesson today.”


Well, we got the guy some technical help–the government to the rescue–and before long, he figured out the males and the females and the presentation was on the screen. 


The only problem, the title slide for his presentation had a misspelling for the product they were selling. 


At this point, all I can say is, this is why American business is getting soft!  😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Bystanders Standing By

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So I was on the Metro train coming home from the office. 


I was sitting on the left side of the car (riding backwards–which I hate) 


And a lady was sitting on the right side of the train (also riding backwards)


She was stylishly dressed, but also honestly a little seductive in a short skirt, knee-high boots, and bare legs. 


There was a older man sitting across from her (facing forward and facing her). 


At one point then some really weird stuff started to go down. 


This guy gets up and starts staring at this lady–but not just the lady, specifically at her legs.


But it get worse, he turns his head sideway–this way and that–very obviously trying to look under her skirt. 


These were not kids mind-you, but grown adults–and this behavior was not only unexpected, but completely shocking.


There are lots of other people around, and it seems like no one knows what to make of this guy or even cares.


Then he inches closer, as if to get a better look, and get this–100% true–he starts to sniff at her.


It was so scary to see this guy on the train acting all perverted–obviously some sort of serious sexual predator. 


My mind starts racing into whether I should get up and be prepared to confront him, so he doesn’t hurt this women, or if there is enough time, can I call for the cops.


But before anything else could unfold, the train pulls into the next station, the double doors open, and he quickly hops off. 


I turn my head to look at the women to make sure she is okay, and I see her breath out a deep-sigh of relief. 


This could’ve been really bad–he could’ve tried to attack her in broad daylight or even follow her off the train. 


The funny thing was that I didn’t see anyone say or do anything about it or even pay attention to the potentially dangerous situation unfolding that was obvious. 


The people were all around, but the bystanders were just that “standing (idly) by” and in no way seemed to pay any notice or they just didn’t want to get involved–it was like complete apathy. 


I hope for everyone’s sake–that people really do care and pay attention when there is danger about–and that it’s not just everyone for themselves.  


We are much stronger together, than when everyone is apathetic or just looking out for themselves. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Say W.H.O.

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So a colleague submitted this photo to me to share on my blog. 


So funny!


This was posted by Federal Occupational Health in the organization’s gym.


Publisher is the World Health Organization.


I don’t think this translates well from Switzerland. 


I’m not going to say another word.


(Source Photo: Colleague)