No Smartphone, No Life

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So we are utterly and helplessly dependent on our smartphones and mobile communications.


If our enemies strike our communications networks, we are as good as dead. 


Can you imagine the panic and chaos that would ensue?


Cut off from family, friends, and colleagues.


Unable to get unto the Internet!


No eCommerce. 


No online Banking. 


No social networking.

No easily and readily available information.

No online music, videos, or gaming.

No online (fake) news. 


As you see in the photo, under the smashed smartphone…it says, “Disaster”!


We wouldn’t know what to do with ourselves. 


And we wouldn’t know how to conduct ourselves by ourself. 


We are completely dependent on mobile communications and connectivity to each other.


Without, we wither and die. 


And G-d created the marvels of the Heaven and Earth in 6 days. 


But we have become so tethered and dependent on our technology, we are toast in just a split second. 


If we don’t get serious about cybersecurity, and fast, there is going to be hell on Earth to pay. 


And not a single shot needs to be fired. 😉


(Source Photo: Rebecca Blumenthal)

Panda Love Express

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This was interesting on the sign in Washington, D.C.

An advertisement for a dating site with a picture of a panda bear apparently with love in it’s eyes.

(Note: I don’t know what Panda.com site is as it wasn’t working when I tested it–hopefully, nothing bad.)

Juxtaposed with the sun glaring off the window on the building next to it, made it seem like it was just calling out to the singles–who are looking to meet Mr./Mrs. Right–for a new beginning. 

Bees do it. Birds do it. Of course, even panda bears do it. 

Everyone should have a chance to find their soulmate and live happily ever after. 

Social sites, gatherings, or personal introductions, whatever brings people together–it’s a beautiful thing. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Challenging The Dunbar 150

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Today, Facebook announced it’s new search tool called Graph Search for locating information on people, places, interests, photos, music, restaurants, and more. 

Graph Search is still in beta, so you have to sign up in Facebook to get on the waiting list to use it. 

But Facebook is throwing down the gauntlet to Google by using natural language queries to search by just asking the question in plain language like: “my friends that like Rocky” and up comes those smart ladies and gents. 

But Graph Search is not just a challenge to Google, but to other social media tools and recommendation engines like Yelp and Foursquare, and even LinkedIn, which is now widely used for corporate recruiting. 

Graph Search uses the Bing search engine and it’s secret sauce according to CNN is that is culls information from over 1 billion Facebook accounts, 24 billion photos, and 1 trillion connections–so there is an enormous and growing database to pull from. 

So while the average Facebook user has about 190 connections, some people have as many as 5,000 and like the now antiquated business card file or Rolodex, all the people in your social network can provide important opportunities to learn and share. And while in the aggregate six degrees of separation, none of us are too far removed from everyone else anyway, we can still only Graph Search people and content in our network.

Interestingly enough, while Facebook rolls out Graph Search to try to capitalize on its treasure trove personal data and seemingly infinite connections, Bloomberg BusinessWeek (10 January 2013) ran an article called “The Dunbar Number” about how the human brain can only handle up to “150 meaningful relationships.”

Whether hunter-gather clans, military units, corporate divisions, or an individual’s network of family, friends, and colleagues–our brain “has limits” and 150 is it when it comes to substantial real world or virtual relationships–our brains have to process all the facets involved in social interactions from working together against outside “predators” to guarding against “bullies and cheats” from within the network. 

According to Dunbar, digital technologies like the Internet and social media, while enabling people to grow their virtual Rolodex, does not really increase our social relationships in the real meaning of the word. 

So with Graph Search, while you can mine your network for great talent, interesting places to visit, or restaurants to eat at, you are still fundamentally interacting with your core 150 when it comes to sharing the joys and challenges of everyday life. 😉

(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

Social Media, Fulfilling Our Every Need?

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One of my daughters sent me this article for my blog and said “you”ll like this,” and she was right.

The article is called 10 Things You Don’t Know About Teens And Social Networking–it was eye opening.
I read about kids’ (ages 13-15) experiences with going online and their utter fascination and addiction to social media.
As I started to analyze and categorize these, I realized the power of social media is anchored in every layer of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs: from physiological to self-actualization – not only for kids but also adults, as follows:
1) Physiological Needs–Foster social networks online, which is a powerful factor in developing productive and profitable life opportunities–as the old adage goes “It’s not what you know, but who you know.”  As Hannah, age 13, states: “There is more life happening online than offline.”
2) Safety Needs–Despite all the fears about people preying on others online and cyber bullying, people tend to feel safer behind their computer than not. Call it the anonymity factor or the distance of not being within range of a punch in a the nose. As Sadie, age 14, states: “I feel safer online, than I do offline.”
3) Social Needs–They don’t call it “social media” for nothing. Yes, it’s all about reaching out to others from email to chat and from blogs to wikis, we’re connecting with each other all virtually all the time. As Jasmine, age 13, states: “My friendships are really affected by social networking.”
4) Esteem Needs–Your online image or brand matters a lot to people where they either get ego-boosted or deflated. People desperately want to be “liked,” “friended,” “mentioned,” and “commented” about.  As Samantha, age 14, states: “It affects our image and self-confidence.”
5) Self-Actualization Needs–At the end of the day, we all want to realize our full potential and social media provide powerful tools to engage, be heard, influence, and ultimately make a difference.
As many of the kids self-report, the compulsion to be online is so strong for two reasons:
1) Personal Addiction–The satisfaction of our needs by doing social media creates an addiction that must be fulfilled or else like a drug addict, you experience the dire pain of withdrawal–as one girl, Nina, age 15 reported, “I feel like I’m losing control.  I want my parents to tell me to get off the computer. Actually, they would need to literally take the computer away because I can’t stop myself.”
2) Peer Pressure–There is a social addiction that results in peer pressure to be online and participate or else. As Jasmine, age 13, states: “So you have to be online all the time, just to keep track, so you don’t upset anyone.”
While clearly much good comes from social media (in terms of human need fulfillment), anything that becomes an addiction–personal and societal–can be dangerous and a cause for concern.
As with all tools to satisfy human needs, we need to control the tools, rather than be controlled by them.
With social media, people should use it if and when it meets their needs and balance that with other important tools for fulfilling those needs, such as school, work, in-person relationships, real activities and so on.
We should never become so consumed by social media that we neglect other vital life activities, but rather we need to exert self-control and teach our children the same–to become well-rounded, functional people online and off.

>The iWatch Does It All

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Forget James Bond gadgets or Dick Tracy 2-way wrist-watches, the new concept iWatch is the one to drool over.