There were 2 inspirational student speakers today at my daughter’s graduation from American University.
One spoke about how he got sick soon after starting college with a serious vascular disease, but despite numerous hopsitalizations, treatments, and falling behind his peers, he persevered and was graduating today and in very good spirits.
Another women spoke about her many failures leading up to the success today of her graduation. She described how her father used to ask her:
“What did you fail at this week?”
Because even though we don’t like to admit it, most people have many, many more failures in life than successes.
Even Thomas Edison, the inventor of the light bulb is said to have failed 1,000 times before getting it right.
This women explained how failure is actually something to celebrate–does that sound crazy?.
But it’s really not, and here’s why?
“To fail is to learn.
To learn is to grow.
To fail is to grow forward.”
Now, I had heard about failing up, but never failing forward.
Many who fail still manage to advance themselves in the process.
But failing forward is different.
It’s not taking advantage of the failure, but legitimately learning from the experience so that you can grow yourself, and advance yourself, by becoming a smarter, stronger, and more capable person from it.
Sure, it hurts to fail.
Who would normally want to celebrate failure?
But if we understand life as a journey and not a specific destination, then we enjoy every blessed moment that we have to become better today and tomorrow than we were yesterday.
In this case, failure is not the opposite of success, but rather is part and parcel of achieving it. 😉
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)