Turning To Love

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Just an observation about love today.


But it seems that it’s far easier and more frequent to see love turn to hate and resentment than vice versa.


It’s a lot easier to destroy a relationship (or any success) than to build it to begin with.


Even as we talk about forgiveness and loving thy neighbor, it seems that more often than not negative feelings are at best turned to acceptance or neutral feelings rather than back to true endearment.


This state is often accompanied by such fears or protectionist sayings as “leopards don’t change their spots” or “love once lost is lost forever.”


While we may be willing to turn the other cheek for a moment or even a while, bad feelings and distrust towards another does not make the leap back to closeness and an endearing, loving relationship all that often.


Of course, there are exceptions where through trust building measures and “easing of sanctions” or hostilities, we can over time rebuild a relationship and become allies or partners again.


However, it is far easier to break trust and lose love then to ever rebuild and recover it.


All the more reason to cherish our meaningful relationships and make love count, sing, and dance for us every moment of every day. 😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

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It’s Not Working

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So it’s human nature to want to leave the world a better place than before we got here.


But you wouldn’t know it by how things are looking the last number of years.


Here’s just the latest from reports this week:


1) The Global Peace Index: “World is less peaceful today than in 2008…Last year alone it is estimated that 20,000 people were killed in terrorist attacks up from an average of 2,000 a year only 10 years ago.”


2) A Record Year In Misery: “The world has never seen a refuge crisis this bad…last year saw the total number of forcibly displaced persons rise to 59.5 million, an all time high.” This is due to world conflict, general violence, human rights violations, and persecution.”


3) Climate Apocalypse: “A child born today may live to see humanity’s end…[as a result of] overcrowding, denuded resources, and climate change…dangerous climate change is already here. The question is can we avoid catastrophic climate change.”


4) Americans Have Lost Confidence In Everything: “It not just Congress [and the President] and the economy that have Americans concerned these days…All in all, it’s a picture of a nation discouraged about its present and worried about its future, and highly doubtful that its institutions can pull America out of its trough.


Maybe the worst thing is that many people are deluding themselves that everything is hunky dory. 


But isn’t it time for some real wins again? 


To do that we need genuine good old fashioned elbow grease–that means we start with a strategy that actually tackles the issues rather than kicking the can down the road. We need honesty, not political upmanships and swell soundbite cliches. 


What good is appeasement to the masses now, if it means their utter despair or demise later–for example, why should we be Greece on the brink of national bankruptcy, if instead we can be Norway with the largest sovereign wealth fund in the world? 


Then comes the hard work, fortitude, and commitment to turn the tide on the bad news and losses. This mean personal and national sacrifice now in order to have better times for our children and grandchildren. 


G-d is watching us, our children are questioning us, the needy are looking to us. 


We are working hard, but it’s hardly working! 


Maybe we need to make this real simple: “Little Johnny, now take your medicine, and stop fighting Mommy, p-lease!”  😉


(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)

What True Love Means

A Walk To Remember–what an absolutely amazing movie.

This girl with a beautiful soul, Jamie, turns around the life of this lost boy, Landon.

She warns him not to fall in love with her, but he does.

She reveals that she has Leukemia and is no longer responding to medicine.

Landon is head over heels for her and marries her despite the prognosis.

They enjoy one summer of love before she passes.

But she has changed his life forever.

I cried like a baby at this one.

It was a movie of faith, love, and turnaround–it made me believe again. 😉

“Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude of selfish. It does not offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes.” – Nicholas Sparks