I was reading Vladimir Jabotinsky’s “Story of My Life.”
And there is this quote that I really like attributed to Kipling in it:
Victory or defeat: learn to accept both with equanimity since both are deceptions.
I just thought this is profound.
We never really fully win or lose.
Everything is on a spectrum.
And where we think we are on that spectrum is often not even nearly correct.
You think you won that one, but guess what someone else has outsmarted you and you don’t even know it yet.
Also, wins can be easily followed by loses and vice versa.
Things can turn on a dime and who’s up becomes who’s down–as the wheel of life turns and turns again.
Recognize that you don’t control everything–actually, the only thing you do control is how you react and behave.
Everything else is a test to teach you and help you grow.
And as I heard from a speaker yesterday, “you can’t make up in space, what you have lost in time.”
Victory or defeat, both are deceptions.
Only how you choose to act is the real win or lose.
(Source Photo: Andy Blumenthal)